The Do-Not-Party List

Last night, while questing around Desolace with my priest, I got two unsolicited tells from a certain jerky paladin whose name is on my Do-Not-Party list. The first time he just said, “RFK?” The second time, just “SM library.” Of course, I recognized the name immediately and turned him down. In each case, I thanked him for asking, as I always do, and wished him luck. I really was busy questing with my husband’s warrior toon, but after my last experience with him, there is absolutely no way I would have joined his party even if I had the time to spare.

After his second tell, I was browsing my blacklist a bit. It’s a short list (which may surprise you given all the whinging about pugs here so far), scrawled on a pad of paper next to my computer. It’s arranged in the order I ran into each person, and next to each name, there are just a couple of words to describe why they’re on the list. Ninja. Jerk. Yells at everyone. Runs ahead and wipes the party. Not too many details, but I hoped that in each case that it would be enough to make me remember why I wouldn’t want to party with them again. It looks a little worse for the wear, given that the cat has overturned at least two glasses of water on it, but I can still make out most of the names.

With the jerky paladin, his name is weird/recognizable and my memories are fresh thanks to writing the blog entry, so the decision will always be clear on that one. For others, I found that the memories were hazier. What instance did I run with them, and what, more specifically, bothered me? I’m pretty sure I don’t add a person if they are simply annoying. They need to be a special kind of annoying to make the list, a kind that says I could not stomach another instance with them. Some offenses are definitely worse than others though. For example, take “runs ahead and wipes the party.” What if the leader was very good, and they were able to keep the person under control? Or, what if they’d learned some better grouping practices since our last meeting? It might be ok to party with someone like that again. On the other hand, I absolutely want to steer clear of the loot ninjas, because I know I’ll just get mad if they do it again. So, it seems I need a better way to keep track of people, perhaps something better organized (and more cat-proof).

After reading Nibuca‘s thoughts on WoW player ratings, I casually looked into addons for keeping track of other players and storing notes on them in the game. One that intrigued me was DiggKarma, which also allows you also to share notes on players with others who have the addon. I wouldn’t mind being able to warn others about the jerky paladin, but I’m not sure that I’d really want to share my friend/ignore lists. I’d have to see what kind of settings it has for privacy.

Really, I just want a way to keep notes for myself. NotesUNeed seems to be a rather popular download, but perhaps something simpler like Player Notes or NoteIt would be sufficient. Oooh, wait a second, I just found a WowAce one that’s FuBar compatible: AuldLangSyne. I’ll give that a try this weekend and report back.

Now, the other issue… It’s easy enough to avoid these folks if they are the one asking me to join the party, but what if I join a party invited by someone else, and find that someone on my blacklist is in the group? This is not something I’ve been faced with yet… would I politely excuse myself? (Sorry guys, gotta log…) I don’t think I’m confrontational enough to actually say why I’m leaving to the person (unless they -really- pissed me off), but would I whisper my reason to the leader? (Look out for the rogue — he’s a ninja…) I think I’d have to say something to someone. I always find it annoying, even if it’s clear that the pug is terrible and going to be unsuccessful, when people leave the group without saying anything, especially if you’re already inside the instance. I genuinely hope I won’t be faced with this, but I’m curious to see how I’ll react when I’m actually in the situation.

How do you keep track of players you’d like to avoid? And if you find yourself in a group with one of these folks, what’s your next move?

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2 responses

  1. I’ve never pugged, but I suspect that is about to end. I know Cartographer has a Notes module, and I think you can enter free-form notes, but it sounds more like AuldLangSyne might be a better choice–thanks for the tip!

  2. What I like even more than the player notes is the quick link to your friend list and guild info through FuBar. It’s nifty to be able to mouseover it and see exactly who and where everyone is without opening the social tab, changing tabs, etc. Fun!

    Good luck with those pugs, too. I look forward to hearing how it goes! 🙂

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